Not every family law dispute requires a courtroom.
Mediation and arbitration offer structured alternatives to traditional litigation — providing privacy, efficiency, reduced cost, and greater control over the resolution process. At Bloom Heffner Hawkins, we serve both as neutrals and advocates, guiding clients through these proceedings.
Mediation
Mediation is a confidential process in which a neutral third party facilitates negotiation between parties seeking resolution. It may occur before litigation is filed or after a case is pending, often to avoid the time and expense of trial.
Mediation can address a broad range of family law issues, including equitable distribution, spousal support, child custody and parenting plans, child support, marital torts, and, in appropriate circumstances, domestic violence matters.
Unlike a judge or arbitrator, a mediator does not impose a decision. The parties retain control over the outcome.
When thoughtfully approached, mediation can preserve resources, reduce conflict, and produce durable agreements tailored to a family’s specific circumstances. A mediator with litigation experience and financial depth can assist parties in evaluating risk, assessing settlement options, and crafting creative resolutions that may not be available in court.
Jessica Heffner is a North Carolina Dispute Resolution Commission Certified Family Financial Mediator. Drawing on her extensive experience in complex and high-conflict divorce matters, she brings disciplined judgment and measured perspective to her role as a neutral mediator.
Arbitration
Arbitration is a more formal alternative to court. In arbitration, the parties present evidence and argument to a neutral decision-maker, who issues a binding ruling.
Arbitration can offer:
Arbitration is often well-suited for cases involving substantial financial issues or parties who prefer a streamlined and confidential forum. It allows the parties to select an experienced decision-maker and move forward on a defined timetable.
Drawing on nearly three decades of experience, Heidi Bloom serves as an arbitrator in family law matters. She evaluates complex claims impartially and renders fair, well-reasoned decisions.
Whether acting as neutrals or advising clients participating in mediation or arbitration, our approach remains consistent: preparation, clarity, and measured judgment.
If you are considering mediation or arbitration — or have been referred to one of these processes — we are prepared to help you evaluate the appropriate path forward.
